A child’s light prayer(s)

I woke up this morning feeling grumpy and disoriented. And from this I apparently felt it was a good idea to come up with children’s prayers. LOL. I have my morning & evening prayers centering around the House of Mundilfæri. After reciting this morning’s I realized that a child probably wouldn’t be able to do that with all the big words and scope. I don’t have any children at home but I channeled my daughter’s sprite-like spirit from the afterlife and came up with the following:

Child’s morning prayer:

Good morning, friend Time, and all of your helpers.
Good morning to Dawn and Day.
Good morning to Clouds and how they move,
Good morning to Sunshine’s rays.
Good morning to laughter with family and friends.
Good morning to spirits of play
Good morning, friend Time, and all of your helpers.
And a very good morning to me!

Child’s evening prayer:

Good night, friend Time, and all of your helpers.
Good night to Dusk and Dark.
Good night to Stars who twinkle so merry.
Good night to Moon’s sweet spark,
Good night to stories, cuddles, and calm.
Good night to dream’s fair lark.
Good night, friend Time, and all of your helpers.
And a very good night to me!

I know that the last lines are a little clunky but let’s face it…kids don’t care. It’s got a short, softer rhythm and rhyming scheme that is easy to digest and repeat. Keeping to that lighter tone my daughter would have loved makes it inspirational but accessible for young tongues and minds. If you are looking for prayers that littles can use without specifying a particular hearth (especially if you have multiple in your household practice), give it a shot and see if it works. Feel free to tweak where you need.

Happy January!

Yule in January?

For many years now the majority of those that recognize and honor Yule (Jul, Jól, or the Anglo-Saxon geóla) do so around the Winter Solstice or Christmas. Makes sense if you want to condense your celebrations. There seems to be some debate on whether the word Yule or Yuletide was even a pagan term though, rather it may be a word assigned to the event of Christmas observances. I think I read that the Vikings gave the name to Anglo-Saxon Christmas proceedings long ago but I am not sure if that holds water or not. There were attestations that the time of Yule occurred in the December to early January months for those that spoke Old English – having named the months for the season. Early Scandinavians seemed to celebrate mid-winter in January. The idea was to recognize that the days were finally getting longer and winter would soon be over. And while the first part of that idea technically begins on the Winter Solstice, the latter section is not true. So why do most people today observe it at the Winter Solstice?

Modern pagans marked the Winter Solstice (December 21st-23rd or so) as the date for Yule to match the Wiccan based wheel of the year. It was centered around calendrical dates for the Equinoxes and the Solstices. Those are clearly marked on nearly all modern calendars so it works and no calculations are necessary. However, the feast time centering around the idea of Yule is meant to be a mid-winter celebration. Designed to recognize that the people have survived nearly half of the grueling cold weather months and are now fully on the turn towards spring. The December date marks the beginning of the winter season, not the middle or near end of it. What the heck?

It all, at least to me, starts with the calendars used then and now to mark the months and seasons. At the time that actively practicing pagans of old would recognize their feast days, the calendar used to determine dates is not the same as the ones we hang on our wall every year now. They were based on the Julian calendar system that placed the Winter Solstice on or near December 25th. Which would make celebrating mid-winter in January ideal as by then the people could actually see the days getting longer. According to writings by the English historian Bede, “The months of Giuli derive their name from the day when the Sun turns back [and begins] to increase,” and this covered both the December and January months. He also wrote that the pagans celebrated mother’s night (Mōdraniht) on the Winter Solstice, which would technically have been December 25th, or Christmas. Interesting that on a day where a virgin supposedly gave birth to a baby in a barn that it was also when pagans honored the mothers of their lines. Kinda makes it less about the baby and more about Mary, right? Which if you have ever given birth, or supported a loved one giving birth, you recognize that it really needs to have more focus placed on mom. She is doing all the work after all.

But we aren’t on the Julian calendar system today. We mark time with the Gregorian calendar, which is more accurate for the days and weeks to remain consistent, but maybe not so much with the seasonal beginnings and endings. Especially with global warming trends picking up. This shift in calendars impacted when the Winter Solstice occurred and pinned it to the scientifically determined longest night of the year. However, this is NOT mid-winter. Mid-winter occurs sometime between the second through the third week of January. And if January has five weeks it falls between the end of the second week through the end of the fourth week. Gregorian systems use the SOLAR calendar to assign dates. In order to make these dates and events fall closer to when the early Anglo-Saxon and Scandinavian pagans celebrated we need to throw out the solar calendar mindset and look at the LUNAR calendar.

There is a bit of a formula to figuring out when the mid-winter feast occurred using the lunar system. I believe there are two interpretations, and you could adjust each year depending on when the moons fell in the December and January months.

  1. The Yule, or mid-winter feast, occurs at the three days prior to the first full moon after the Winter Solstice. The third day would fall directly on the full moon. Pretty simple.
  2. The Yule, or mid-winter feast, occurs at the three days prior to the first full moon AFTER the first new moon past the Winter Solstice (what a mouth full). The third day would fall directly on the full moon as well.

The difference between these two formulas is a time span or adjustment that could easily be a full month and a half past the Winter Solstice. For the first scenario, if the first full moon occurs any time between New Year’s (or Twelfth Night) and the third week of January you are good. In the second scenario, if the new moon occurs on or just after the Winter Solstice – up to the end of December – then the full moon would fall between the beginning and end of January. Again, not a big deal. What gets tricky is when the full moon occurs too close to the Winter Solstice for the first scenario, or the first new moon occurs too late after the Winter Solstice making the full moon bump up against – or on – another high day. This is where being a little flexible comes in handy.

That mid-winter feast is meant to be celebrated on/near the first full moon after the Winter Solstice. Whether you determine that by implementing the New Moon rule or not is up to you. Trying to get the days sometime in early to mid-January means scheduling ahead of time to prepare yourself. For 2026 the first scenario lands the mid-winter feast of Yule on the January 3rd full moon. This is well after Christmas and the Winter Solstice but still close to Twelfth Night and New Year’s Day so you may not like that after all the stuffing of self for the past 30-45 days. If you wanted to use the second scenario that will place the mid-winter feast of Yule squarely on January 30th to February 1st which hits right on Imbolc/Disablot/Candlemas. Frustrating, right? It’s a modern world so here are some flexible alternatives if neither of these dates suit your needs but you want to try and stay true to the original intent of the mid-winter celebration:

  1. Have it on the three days prior to the NEW moon instead of the FULL moon with the feast days hitting on the actual night of the new moon. For 2026 this will fall closer to the middle of January on the 18th. No issues with Twelfth Night, New Year’s, La Belfana, Epiphany, or the Imbolc/Disablot festivities.
  2. Look at one of the calendars already built by some detail-oriented heathen and find the Thorri blot. This usually falls in the middle of the month to the end of the third week in January consistently. It’s not a bad thing to link up the blot with the mid-winter celebration unless you work with another pantheon and Thor isn’t your dude. And if that is the case just make the event only about mid-winter. He won’t get offended. 😁

So what is the big deal about celebrating in January instead of December? Really – nothing. It’s whatever calls to you. But a lot of people suffer from seasonal affective disorder and post-holiday depression. January is the longest, dreariest month for them. It just seems to take “FOR-EVER!!!!” even though it is only 31 days just like December. January in the Northern Hemisphere is filled with cold temperatures, snow, ice, freezing rain and all the other things that people just nit-pick and complain about. Anything to justify their misery. But what if they took those complaints and instead incorporated a practice where winter, and the ACTUAL getting over the hump, are celebrated? You’ve taken down your solstice and xmas decorations. So put up some winter themed: penguins, polar bears, tomte/nisse figures, sleighs & their bells, snowflakes, and icicles. Instead of reds and greens, put up softer tones in blues, purples, rose-colored, silver, and glittery whites. It’s just enough color, and sparkle, to lift the spirits and will transition nicely into Imbolc/Disablot themes and Mardi Gras colors (if you decorate for that). This reminds you that winter is actually quite beautiful and it really isn’t going to last forever. Adding a celebration between New Year’s and February 1st also helps to mark the passing time. Breaking what seems like a long wait into smaller chunks. It’s also another excuse to get together with friends and family or make it solely a family affair to help with those winter doldrums. The middle of January IS technically mid-winter by Gregorian & lunar calendars with the notion that spring begins in March. Honestly, it may be closer to the third week of February depending on where in the Northern Hemisphere you live and the more ending-of-winter-friendly month of April. But mid-January is more fun, I think. After December’s crazy onslaught of multiple traditions and practices having a quiet, or raucous if that’s your thing, celebration to say: “We’re finally moving towards the light and warmth!” seems ideal.

February is jam packed with Imbolc/Disablot, Valentine’s Day, and Mardi Gras. And for the guys: Superbowl Weekend. Then March roars in with Charming of the Plough, St. Patty’s Day, some more sports stuff with a bouncing ball, and then Spring Equinox moving into April and the ability to truly see that winter is over. There is just a ton of stuff going on in the two months before January and the two following. So why not split it up a bit?

In conclusion, how you recognize and celebrate the Yule, or mid-winter, feast is up to you and your schedule. If you like keeping it on or near the 21st of December then go for it. But if you want to try something a little different, shake up your January a little, and ease some of the onslaught of holiday chaos in December – give this a try. You might find it fits your individual practice very well.

Merry Twelfth Night & Happy New Year to you and yours. May your home be filled with blessings and your sacred breath fill you with ease.

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We made it!

It looks like we made it through the holiday season. Mostly. The new spiritual year came and went with the Winter Solstice and the new calendar year is almost upon us.

Next up is La Belfana, Epiphany (if you celebrate it), Yule, and Thor’s blot.

Wait, Yule? I thought that already happened. Weeeeeelllllllll, sort of depending on your practice. I am putting together a blog post about this and hopefully will have it posted before Yule actually happens. Yule for 2026 technically occurs the 1st through the 3rd of January this year. Phew, I should probably get cracking on that blog post!

In other pagan oriented news, I am still writing up the next podcast – which will cover the Vanir genealogy line – but once it’s ready I will get the link posted. I am also working on some knotwork spells/incantations/workings that once I have them ready I will post here. If you are looking to harness some new year juju try a spell-jar starting on the full moon or the new moon. If you start on the Full Moon begin with charging it to remove the things that no longer serve you and your purpose. Then when the New Moon hits begin calling those things needed to you. If you start with a New Moon, reverse the above. This can be repeated for as long as you need.

Me personally? I’m still looking for work. My extra-curricular work doesn’t bring anything into the coffers, and the state continues to deny me unemployment. You would think paying into the system for 36 years would have some sort of benefit for you but Ohio sucks so it doesn’t. Starting over is a pain, being in a holding pattern until the starting over can begin is waaay worse. Keep your fingers crossed and maybe throw a little of that sweet new year juju my way to find gainful employment.

I hope you had a lovely, peaceful Solstice Season however you celebrated. May the New Year bring you a multitude of blessings. ❤️🕊️

Blessings of the Season(s)

It’s the season of the Winter Solstice. Our liminal time of Samhain is winding down and the new spiritual year will start December 21st. If you are keeping track Krampus has already come through bringing a little chaos in his wake. Tomorrow, the 10th, starts the journeys of the Icelandic trolls and their household. I tend to start with the Jólakötturinn (Yule/Jul Cat), then Grýla and Leppaluði on the 11th followed by the Jul Lads each night until the 25th.

Depending on your path, some follow a 12 days of Yule starting around Mother’s Night (Dec 20th) with Twelfth Night occurring New Year’s Eve (Dec 31st). Other try to navigate the lunar cycles to observe Yule on the first full moon after the Winter Solstice, or the full month in the second Yule month (February). La Belfana rides on January 6th and we then get into Thor’s blot, Disablot, Mardi Gras, and Charming of the Plough. There are so many wonderful Yuletide traditions spanning December through January that will keep the home fires burning bright and cheery – feel free to choose one or many.

For me, I am still struggling with unemployment. No income, time is running out before I find myself without a roof over my head. Six months of applying to positions and not a single interview, only rejection emails. I know what I need to pay the bills but so many employers have started dropping what they are offering in salary and adding criteria that is absolutely unnecessary to perform the scope of the jobs. It’s hard to keep the spirits up even during this joyous time of year.

I don’t want to spread sad tidings so instead I did manage to get another podcast loaded to both podbean and YouTube. If you’re interested, go take a listen on Ramblings of Vanaheim podcast. It’s another part 1 of 2 and covers my thoughts on the genealogies of the pantheon.

Enjoy and Happy Yuletide.

Episode 2 of the podcast is now live!

I’m still working out kinks in audio editing. I used to have some skill at this but the programs have all changed and I admit to struggling. My voice never sounds like me in a recording. I also have weird fluctuations in my speech patterns when I am reading the script. I will keep practicing to make it sound more natural but in the meantime have some empathy regarding my technological struggles. As the title of the blog post suggests, I now have two episodes live on Podbean and have figured out how to add them to my YouTube podcast channel as well. Uploading to Apple or Spotify requires an upgrade to my existing account with monies I don’t currently have to spare. Come on gainful employment.

There is no video content as I can’t do cameras and I haven’t figured out a free program that will help me make an animated avatar to go with the podcast instead of my mug. I’m also still trying to figure out embedding and how to connect everything. Pray that I get there. 😉

Here you go – enjoy!

Podbean:

https://www.podbean.com/ep/pb-jvtxc-19846e8

YouTube:

Winter Nights is on its way with Samhain and the Álfablót not far behind.

Keep your heads during these insane times here in the U.S. and don’t forget to find your sacred breath.

Happy Fall, Ya’ll!

Fall Equinox 2025, and Winter Finding 2025 are now done.

I’ve been working on a couple of projects this last week. My twelve days of Samhain journal is now finally up on Lulu. It wouldn’t let me post a link to click on so here is a quick screenshot:

It’s designed to walk someone through extending the Samhain season with a small rite over 12 nights. It is only a little journal rather than a book with history and practices. I think it will appeal to people new to ancestor veneration and those that might struggle coming up with their own words. It’s a nice little companion piece.

In addition, I just put up my first podcast on Podbean! I’ve always hated the way I sound on recordings. I am also not very good with clipping audio files together. I will admit I stuttered quite a bit and had to write out my thoughts ahead of time so I wouldn’t run off on any tangents. I suppose I could have re-recorded but after several hours putting it together my butt was hurting. I hope I sound a little more natural than I think I do. It’s a blend of mythology with a sprinkle of educational content. Nothing too heavy but it’s a good beginning before diving in headlong towards really out there UPG.

The programs that I used for things like this in the past either don’t exist anymore or they have changed to the point that I no longer have the skills to use them effectively so user error most likely. Then there are the ones that became pay only. Ugh. As I am still unemployed, they are luxuries I will have to forego for the foreseeable future so subpar audio it is. Here is the link if you care to listen. I apologize for any weirdness in the audio. I have a new microphone and it doesn’t always get my voice inflections correct. Oh well. It can only get better from here…right? I will cross my fingers that somewhere in the future I will be rich enough to hire someone else to do the editing for me and all I have to do is talk. Goals!

agvanidottir.podbean.com/e/in-the-beginning-part-1/

So, what is coming up? Winter Nights the middle of October and then Samhain. I have a lot of my belongings in boxes and totes right now in case I have to put stuff in storage and move. It all depends on whether I find a dang job. That means a much more scaled down version of everything. Tealights and some incense. Work on my pretty words again and that should about cover it.

Healthwise I am doing better. Now that I am not working under such a stress inducing situation most of the inflammation, sleepless nights, and anger have subsided. Definitely happier over all if not a lot broker. I still don’t regret leaving the job, just losing the paycheck.

Other than that not a lot else is going on. I guess now that I have put the first journal out and the first podcast I will have to get going on the follow-ups. In the meantime –

Don’t forget to find your sacred breath.